Just having packed for a three-week trip to Norway, I am amazed at all the stuff I think I need. And I know I’ve made copies of my passport, driver’s license, and credit cards for previous trips, but couldn’t find them before this trip. I’m sure they’re in a file. Or a pile. Somewhere.
My husband recently went in for a colonoscopy and made it a goal to complete his health care directive. He’ll file his copy with my health care directive and hopefully, if someone needed to find them, they could.
As part of a caregiver focus group, we asked family caregivers what they least expected. Top among the issues had to do with the high cost of care and spending a lot of time tracking down documents. I make reference to gathering financial and legal documents in The Unexpected Caregiver, and recently interviewed Hope Clements with My Legacy Made Easy (Listen to our radio interview here). She and her partner created this product to organize your life’s work and give peace of mind to your family caregivers. They use a three-step process to help you establish and maintain your legacy planner. You walk away with all of your important documents in one place. How cool is that?
When you’re in the emotional throes of giving care to your parents, it feels like a waste of precious time to search high and low for necessary documents. Here’s what I suggest: organize your own “stuff,” then offer to help your parents do the same. Check out www.mylegacymadeeasy.com and get in touch with me if you need help! Once many of the details are in order, you can focus on connecting. What a gift!